Thursday, October 22, 2009

Yo yo I am back again….today was such a glommy day as it was raining like no tomorrow lol…actually I quite enjoyed it cause it’s a weather where we can sleep like the night is still young haha…back to the topic….i came across a guy today at starbucks aka (starbuck guy)…well he’s quite young but attractive from my view…we chatted away after getting each others drinks to fill the hours…he talk a lot about him self…quite high self confidence but lack of persuasion…theres 1 topic he talk to me about that grab my attention it is about his bad past with one of his ex….so this how the story goes…he said he treated that special girl with all his heart…he gave her the world..buy her this buy her that….so then I ask….do you describe your relationship as romantic or?he pause for a moment there…few seconds later still no answer…finally he said what is romantic?= =””I was shock and almost burst out a terrible laughter till I almost pee in my pants lol….he said he gave her the world but he doesn’t even know how relationships should be…this is what I would like to call a cows love….why is that you ask….simply said is that cows produces milk for their packs meaning that’s how cows shows love…but cows will be cows…no matter how much milk they give out no cows in the pack is gonna say hey thx for the milk lol…get what I mean?....still blur?ok let me just say it out loud the topic for today..it is appreciation…do you know anyone with the same story like the story I told you guys about the guy I meet just now?haha don’t you think he is stupid? Sorry to say that but in reality that’s what people will say about guys like that because he give out everything but get nothing in return ya?....so what I am trying to say is…I want you guys to ask yourself weather you are in a relationship or not….just ask yourself this..does your partner appreciates everything that you’ve done before…yes?no?if yes how do you measure it and put it in words?if no then do you consider yourself stupid for doing all that you did for nothing?whatever reasons it is I’m telling you guys…when theres no appreciation given by both parties then trust me the relationship wont last….imagine you are in starbuck guys shoes..you give everything to your partner without thinking and not knowing weather that’s the thing your partner wants or need…then finally 1 day your partner leaves you without a word..and when you finally ask your partner why?i gave you the world and everything it has to offer why leave me?weather your partner answers of not I am sure the answer is gonna be I didn’t ask for all that so why should I care or appreciate things that I’ve never ask for and things that I don’t need…do you guys get what I am trying to say here?it means when you wanna show love to someone make sure you ASK 1st or try to understand the needs of your other half…that way she or he will appreciate what you do for them….the idea here is make SURE they know what they want and what you’ve done for them….most people tend to be a good person by doing things for their love ones without letting them know…there’s a Chinese saying that goes like this “kiang tiu ho,mai keh kiang” the meaning is don’t try to act smart…. God gave us 2 ears and 1 mouth so try listening to what your other half needs and wants before doing anything for them this way both parties will be happy and knows how to appreciates each other…in the end of the day don’t be surprise by how good your relationship will get after the magic of appreciation comes in play….this conclude my 3rd topic on LOVE ^.^ have any questions you will find my contacts just below ^.^ till then chaoz everyone have a pleasant LOVE~

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